Frequently Asked Questions and Answers
What is the Boudoir Experience all about?
It’s not just the photos you receive; it’s about transforming the way you see yourself and loving every part of yourself as you are right now. Boudoir is not reserved for the “perfect” women we see on the covers of magazines; it’s for everybody, no matter shape, age or size. You deserve to see the beauty in yourself.
Having health and fitness goals is great, but you don’t need to wait for your ideal body to live your life to the fullest. The whole idea of boudoir is celebrating yourself as you are in this moment.
Common Concerns and Questions about a Boudoir Experience
"I can't do a boudoir shoot; I'm not skinny enough."
Boudoir photography is about celebrating YOU, exactly as you are. Every body is beautiful, and my sessions are designed to highlight your unique features and beauty. With expert posing, professional lighting, and flattering wardrobe options, you'll feel like the goddess you are. Confidence isn’t about size; it’s about owning your space, and I’m here to help you do just that.
"I need to lose some weight first."
You don’t need to change a thing about yourself to deserve a boudoir experience. The idea of "waiting" often holds us back from embracing our beauty in the present. Boudoir is about celebrating your body now—not some ideal future version of you. Trust me to create images that show your best self, no matter where you are in your journey.
"What if my photos end up online?"
Your privacy is my top priority. I never share photos without your explicit permission. You'll have full control over whether or not your images are shared, and I’ll review my privacy policy with you in detail during your consultation. Your trust means everything to me.
"I'm not confident enough to do something like this."
You don't need to feel confident to book a session—that’s my job! I’ll guide you every step of the way, from posing to outfit choices, so you feel supported and empowered. Many clients start the session feeling nervous and leave feeling unstoppable. Boudoir is as much about building confidence as it is about taking beautiful photos.
"I'm too old for a boudoir shoot."
Beauty has no expiration date. Women of all ages have found boudoir to be a powerful and transformative experience. Whether you're 25 or 75, boudoir is about celebrating where you are in life and honoring the journey you’ve been on. Confidence and sensuality are timeless.
"I have stretch marks."
Stretch marks are a natural and beautiful part of your body’s story. I embrace them as part of what makes you uniquely you. While I use professional lighting and editing to enhance your photos, I celebrate your body exactly as it is. Your journey, your marks, your beauty—they’re all worth celebrating.
"I don't want to be naked in front of a photographer."
Boudoir doesn’t have to mean nudity. Your comfort is the most important part of the session. Whether you prefer a cozy sweater, lingerie, or something more daring, I tailor the session to your comfort level. You set the boundaries, and I’ll create stunning images that reflect your personality.
"I’m not photogenic."
Everyone says this at first! It’s not your job to know how to pose—it’s mine. I’ll guide you into poses that flatter your body and highlight your favourite features. By the end of your session, you’ll see yourself in a whole new light.
"Boudoir isn’t for someone like me."
Boudoir is for everyone. No matter your size, shape, age, or background, you deserve to feel confident and beautiful. My goal is to create an experience that uplifts and empowers you, helping you embrace the version of yourself you’ve always wanted to see.
"I’m worried I’ll feel awkward during the session."
It’s natural to feel a little nervous, but my job is to create a safe, relaxed, and fun environment. With professional guidance, music, and some laughter along the way, most clients quickly find themselves feeling at ease and enjoying the process.
"I don’t have the right wardrobe for boudoir."
You don’t need a huge lingerie collection to have an amazing session. Many clients bring a mix of items, from cosy sweaters to their favourite lingerie. During your consultation, I’ll help you plan the perfect outfits and you will receive a Boudoir Style Guide to help you prepare for your session.
"How do I prepare for my boudoir shoot?"
I provide a detailed preparation guide to help you feel ready for your session. From skincare tips to outfit ideas, I’ve got you covered. All you need to bring is yourself and an open mind!
"What if I’m not sure about booking?"
It’s okay to feel hesitant! Let’s start with a no-pressure phone consultation where I can answer your questions, discuss your vision, and walk you through the process. Boudoir is a deeply personal journey, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.